Building Relationships We Can All Be Proud Of

Monday, 8 October 2012

DON'T QUENCH THE FLAMES...

Those moments when your partner calls you every second to check up on you....
Gets all worried and sometimes upset when they don't hear from you...
Starts imagining all the unimaginables when you don't pick their calls...
Puts a lot of expectations on you...
Gets all sticky around you...

Ah what a bother... You say...

Then after directly and indirectly putting them down and quenching their flames....

They stop calling...asking... Finding out... Bothering...they find a distraction, dangerous or harmless...

You are on your own...

Soon you start missing....missing those days when you mattered...when you were their main preoccupation, their heartbeats...when you could make them sleepless and give them heart palpitation...

Now they don't care again...

I learnt a couple of months ago...people who love you most are those who demand a lot of you and sometimes can give you drama over the least failings... The day nothing is demanded from you again is the day nothing is expected of you...again...You are treated equally like all the rest....that is when you must panic because a bitter conclusion has been drawn on you... You are no more the darling...

Be happy for the little little show of concern...you and I know love can be silly at times...
~PG Sebastian~
2012