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Friday, 20 April 2012

THE POST WITHOUT A TITLE

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I was recently having a conversation with a friend when the issue of sexual compatibility came up. My friend concluded that was why some people have sex before marriage....because that was the only way you could find out if the man meets the woman's sexual specifications in terms of drive, stamina, size and quality.

I quietly asked so what next if Richard fails? Good enough a reason to leave him? Any guarantees Kwame will pass? Well the sweetness of the pudding is in the munching... So he also munches and fails...you pack your bags and hit the trail...? Douglas fails. ..even Dick... (pardon the name) fails... By the time you meet Paul...wouldn't you have lost Counts

In any case there are some things sex might not reveal between people having it for fun..like ability to impregnate... Or you will want to get pregnant to prove he can impregnate you? For all you know, you could have done it without condoms or pills.. The gun can't fire.

Well he can get you pregnant...what if YOU can't hold a baby past 3 months? You wanna try that too? The permutation and combination can yield myriad of possibilities it is not worth making it your gamble.

There is nothing like a man or woman is totally not good in bed....(excepts it's a medical condition or a birth defect). But you are prone to compare when you have had more than one sexual partner in the past.

At 21 Richard could only do what he can...when you date Kofi who is 26 he will definitely give you more than Richard...Then comes the 32 year old player who has been thru all the skirts and has seen it all. He comes to blow your mind out...

Then you meet sweet adorable Joe... He is duh... Just just terrible. You can read a magazine when he is at his busiest... So you leave him...finally it comes that you might want to settle...Kojo... He is everything... Even better...But then after marriage you realise he wants sex once a week...not twice a day... .so you get uncomfortable...unsatisfied...then you go looking...sneaking...then adultery-ing.

You see there is no urge to compare when u have known only one man...and between me and you...women and men always compare... And the larger the number...the greater the temptation to fall for the lie that it can be better somewhere and the weaker your resolve to stick with one person.

PEOPLE WHO ARE LIKELY TO COMPLAIN ABOUT THEIR PARTNER'S SEXUAL PERFORMANCE ARE USUALLY THOSE WHO HAVE HAD MULTIPLE SEXUAL PARTNERS OR PEOPLE WHOSE PARTNERS LIED TO THEM ABOUT THEIR SEXUAL TASTE.

I wont pretend it is not major issue in marriages.... Sexual problems... But having sex to prove a man's worth is very lame and mostly it is the woman who loses... To the man you are a job well accomplished whether it lasted 3 seconds or not...He was there some® and it is worth putting on his CV....

Look at it like someone who keeps trading vehicles...he buys the latest car, drives it and exchanges it for a new one...it's a pride business for him... I wonder if you can also have that pride talking about how many men you bedded in search of that ultimate man.

People don't 'drive test' brand new cars for a year in order to decide if they want to purchase it... Do your search... Pay and drive... If everyone tested it what would be the mileage before the actual owner buys it...

Cinderella lost her slippers not her pride in order to get a prince... 
PG Sebastian 
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